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Looking Gay

From: outLoud Radio
Length: 06:03

Tight pants! Leather jackets! Body hair! What would you wear if you wanted to "look gay"? How do these stereotypes affect us? Read the full description.
Looking Gay
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Stereotypical-lesbian_small Tight pants! Leather jackets! Body hair! What would you wear if you wanted to "look gay"? How do these stereotypes affect us?

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Javi: Hi Sophia. How are you doing?

Sophia: Hi Javi. I'm good. How are you?

Javi: I'm good. I just went shopping the other day and I got this really really nice leather jacket.

And then I also got these pants. The only problem is: they're kind of really tight.

Sophia: That's kind of stereotypically gay. Isn't it?

Javi: Well, I guess that kind of depends on what your definition of stereotypically gay is.

Sophia: Funny thing you should say that. I already interviewed some people from my school about that.

Do you want to listen to it?

Javi: Yeah, sure! I'd definitely like to hear what people think "stereotypically gay" is.

Sophia: Okay. Great!

[transition sound effect]

Sophia: If you wanted someone to think you were gay, what would you wear?

Student 1: Um. Okay. You know, of course, all lesbians are supposed to have really really butch haircuts.

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