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Adoption Ritual

From: Destination DIY
Length: 00:05:46

When Katie Perkins adopted 10-year-old Tajenae out of foster care, they created a ritual to mark the occasion. Read the full description.

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This piece originally appeared in the DIY Rituals episode of Destination DIY. The full episode is also available on PRX.
The producer is Julie Sabatier (suh-BAH-tee-ay). 

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Piece Description

This piece originally appeared in the DIY Rituals episode of Destination DIY. The full episode is also available on PRX.
The producer is Julie Sabatier (suh-BAH-tee-ay). 

Broadcast History

This was originally broadcast as part of Destination DIY's "DIY Rituals" episode, which has aired on Oregon Public Broadcasting, KUT Austin and a handful of other stations.

Transcript

There’s a lot to be said for getting creative with existing rituals. But sometimes you just have to make up your own. That’s what Katie and Tajenae Perkins did when they chose each other as family. They weren’t getting married, though. As Katie says, they adopted each other. Tajenae was 10 years old at the time and Katie was in her mid-thirties. They first met when Katie decided to take in a foster child after working in the foster care system for years as a social worker.

Katie: I always knew that I would adopt a foster child from pretty early on in my work with foster kids, but I thought I would be married first. And so I never even really planned for it or gave it a thought and so something just moved in me and I became sure that I was ready and equipped to do it all of a sudden....conviction: She just came in and we really connected right away and it’s been wonderful. I’ve enjoyed...
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That piece comes from Julie Sabatier (suh-BAH-tee-ay), host and producer of Destination DIY.

Additional Credits

Music by Jason Leonard. Engineered by Clark Salisbury.

Related Website

http://destinationdiy.org/episodes/episode35.html