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StoryCorps: Betsy Brooks and John Grecsek

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Brooks_small Growing up, Betsy Brooks had a turbulent relationship with her father, Charles. He was a military man and ruled his household with a firm hand. Years later, when he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, their relationship took a turn.

Here, Brooks tells her boyfriend, John Grecsek, about her relationship with her father.

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Piece Description

Growing up, Betsy Brooks had a turbulent relationship with her father, Charles. He was a military man and ruled his household with a firm hand. Years later, when he was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, their relationship took a turn.

Here, Brooks tells her boyfriend, John Grecsek, about her relationship with her father.

Broadcast History

NPR Morning Edition 7/8/11

Transcript

Betsy Brooks: We butted heads from the moment we could. He was a proud Marine, and I always say that we learned the Marine Corps hymn before we knew our ABC' s. He was a meticulous man. He was meticulous about the house and the yard. And he was a perfectionist. His favorite tool was his level. I was just cut from a different cloth. My mother, she would make these lists of, you know, all my day's crimes. She would save them for my father when he came home from work, and he would turn positively livid. So, the day I turned eighteen, I got myself my own apartment.

John Grecsek: When did the Alzheimer's start?

BB: It started to become obvious that he wasn't himself. He was a razor sharp person, but he started not to be able to do simple things. I remember one time I asked him to make some picture frames for me. He loved to do that sort of stuff. When I came home after work, you know, m...
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INTRO:

Time now for StoryCorps... recording conversations between Americans across the country...

Betsy Brooks came to StoryCorps in New York with her boyfriend John Grecsek (GRESS-ick) to talk about her father, Charles.

Charles was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease when he was 78.

And here, Betsy tells John about her relationship with her dad before the diagnosis.

OUTRO:

“We butted heads…I wish the price to pay for it wasn’s so high.”

Betsy Brooks remembering her father, Charles John Brooks, with her boyfriend John Grecsek. This interview was recorded shortly after Charles died.

It will be archived along with ALL StoryCorps interviews at the Library of Congress.

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Additional Credits

NPR, Corporation for Public Broadcasting, Principal Financial Group

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