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A Way with Words: Bless Your Heart (#1269)

Series: A Way with Words
From: A Way with Words
Length: 00:54:00

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This week, it's backhanded phrases, those snarky remarks that come sugar-coated in politeness, like "How nice for you," "Oh, interesting!," and the mother of all thinly veiled criticism, "Bless her heart." Also this week, free reign vs. free rein, the origin of the one-finger salute, and what it means if a Frenchman has big ankles. And "Jeopardy!" champion Ken Jennings stops by to try his hand at a slang quiz. Read the full description.
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Piece Description

You've been on the receiving end of backhanded phrases, and admit it, you've used them, too. A discussion on Ask.Metafilter prompts Grant and Martha to talk about the ways people use sugar-coated snark. By the way, if you want a fancy word for veiled criticisms like "Bless her heart" and "Let me know how that works out," it's charientism, from a Greek word that means "the expression of an unpleasant thing in an agreeable manner."

http://ask.metafilter.com/133910/Bless-your-heart-and-other-backhanded-phrases

Is it free reign or free rein?

The back forty refers to a remote area of a large piece of land. Grant has the origin of that phrase.

What do English bowmen, the French, and lopped-off digits have to do with the classic middle-finger insult? Absolutely nothing. A San Diego truck driver wonders about the true origin of the one-finger salute. By the way, there's a great debunking of the English archers story here.

http://www.snopes.com/language/apocryph/pluckyew.asp

Quiz Guy John Chaneski says he's been visiting some "niche" high schools, all of which have the word "High" in them. How about this one: "The school where they study phantoms, ghosts, and apparitions." That would be Spirits High.

A caller who grew up in Australia has a question about wedding-invitation etiquette in the U.S. She wonders: Shouldn't an invitation refer to a daughter's "marriage with" the groom rather than a "marriage to" him?

A man who works nights in a mortuary in Brookings, Oregon is curious about the origin of--what else?-- graveyard shift.

Quick, picture a berry: Is it blue? Red? Then where'd we get the English expression brown as a berry?

It's "Slang for $500." All-time Jeopardy! Champion Ken Jennings tackles his next logical challenge, the "A Way with Words" Slang Quiz. Ken puzzles over the meaning of brummagem and pluck of a pig, and tries to guess an usual meaning for the term daylight. More about Ken at his website. http://www.ken-jennings.com/index.html

In many neighborhoods, the night before Halloween is the night when pranksters run around wreaking all kinds of mischief--toilet-papering houses, spraying windows with shaving cream, ringing doorbells and then running away. A Connecticut woman remembers calling that night Goosey Night, and is surprised when friends call it Mischief Night. In fact, that prankfest goes by lots of other names, including Corn Night, Picket Night, and Devil Night.

In English, we say that someone who's egotistical has a big head. But in French, according to a caller notes, the person is said to have big ankles. Why ankles?

Grant shares a quirklum.


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CONTACT INFORMATION

Grant Barrett
Co-host/co-producer of "A Way with Words"
http://waywordradio.org
cell/office (646) 286-2260
gbarrett@worldnewyork.org
words@waywordradio.org

Backup contact information:
Stefanie Levine
Senior Producer of "A Way with Words"
cell/office (619) 890-4275
slevine@waywordradio.org

Broadcast History

For broadcast starting Friday, May 28, 2010. This episode First aired October 31, 2009.

Transcript

Summary:

This week, it's backhanded phrases, those snarky remarks that come sugar-coated in politeness, like "How nice for you," "Oh, interesting!," and the mother of all thinly veiled criticism, "Bless her heart." Also this week, free reign vs. free rein, the origin of the one-finger salute, and what it means if a Frenchman has big ankles. And "Jeopardy!" champion Ken Jennings stops by to try his hand at a slang quiz.

You've been on the receiving end of backhanded phrases, and admit it, you've used them, too. A discussion on Ask Metafilter prompts Grant and Martha to talk about the ways people use sugar-coated snark. By the way, if you want a fancy word for veiled criticisms like "Bless her heart" and "Let me know how that works out," it's charientism, from a Greek word that means "the expression of an unpleasant thing in an agreeable manner."

http://ask.metafilter.com/133910/Bless-y...
Read the full transcript

Timing and Cues

The show clock:

Billboard: 1:00
Segment 1: 13:00
Music Bed: 1:00
Segment 2: 19:00
Music Bed: 1:00
Segment 3: 19:00
TRT: 54:00

Stations typically take NPR news at the top of the hour and start our
show at :06 with Breaks at :19 and :39 and out at :59.

Here's a typical episode rundown:

--Billboard
--Seg 1
----Intro: 2-3 minutes
----Caller questions: 10-11 minutes
--Break 1:00
--Seg 2
----Word Challenge 4-6 minutes
----Caller questions 13-15 minutes
--Break 1:00
--Seg 3
----Slang Quiz 5-7 minutes
----Caller questions 11-13 minutes
----Credits: 1:00

Intro and Outro

INTRO:

This week on "A Way with Words": When is Goosey Night? Why do we say "the back forty"? And it's "Slang for 500"! Martha and Grant welcome all-time Jeopardy champion Ken Jennings as he takes on his next logical challenge: the "A Way with Words" Slang Game!

OUTRO:

Additional Credits

Hosted by Martha Barnette and Grant Barrett. Produced by Stefanie Levine. Engineered and edited by Tim Felten. Production assistance by Josette Herdell and Jennifer Powell. Recorded at Studio West in Rancho Bernardo, California, and at KQED Radio in San Francisco.

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http://www.waywordradio.org