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StoryCorps: Eileen Tarr and Ellen Hess

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Eileen Tarr and her sister Ellen Hess remember their father leaving for the Vietnam War. Read the full description.

Tarr_small James Dowling was a Chief Warrant Officer in the Army for 25 years. He fought in World War II and in the Korean War. In 1966, he was sent to Vietnam for a one-year tour, leaving behind his wife, and three daughters who were in elementary school at the time. Two of his daughters, Ellen Hess, 50, and Eileen Tarr, 52, still remember the day their father left for war. "The day that we put him on the plane at the Pittsburgh airport was one of the saddest days of my life," Tarr recalls. She was just 9 years old at the time, and remembers that her older sister, Ellen, was so depressed, she couldn't go back to school for the afternoon. The sisters knew their father would be gone for one year, so they marked time with a string of 365 safety pins. Each day, their mother, Mary, removed a safety pin as a visible reminder that her husband would one day return home. James Dowling survived the Vietnam War and was awarded the Bronze Star for bravery.

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Piece Description

James Dowling was a Chief Warrant Officer in the Army for 25 years. He fought in World War II and in the Korean War. In 1966, he was sent to Vietnam for a one-year tour, leaving behind his wife, and three daughters who were in elementary school at the time. Two of his daughters, Ellen Hess, 50, and Eileen Tarr, 52, still remember the day their father left for war. "The day that we put him on the plane at the Pittsburgh airport was one of the saddest days of my life," Tarr recalls. She was just 9 years old at the time, and remembers that her older sister, Ellen, was so depressed, she couldn't go back to school for the afternoon. The sisters knew their father would be gone for one year, so they marked time with a string of 365 safety pins. Each day, their mother, Mary, removed a safety pin as a visible reminder that her husband would one day return home. James Dowling survived the Vietnam War and was awarded the Bronze Star for bravery.

Broadcast History

NPR's Morning Edition May 11, 2007

Transcript

ET: The day that we put him on the plane in the Pittsburgh airport was
one of the saddest days of my life. You were so depressed about it you
couldn't even go back to school for the afternoon. I went to school, and
the day went by and all i could think about was dad stepping on that
plane to go to Vietnam, and i cannot remember many days that went by
that i didn't think about him and worry about him.

EH: When Bob Hope was on, mom parked us in front of the TV set, hoping
we would see him, and that we could be able to say dad looked okay. you
know i remember her loneliness about being separated from dad, and i
remember when she made that chain out of 365 safety pins, and every day
he was gone she would take a safety pin off. When she first put it up,
it was on a lamp,

ET: it was a standing lamp

EH: It actually wrapped around it, and there was a pool on the floor

ET: i can remember watc...
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Intro and Outro

INTRO:

Time now for StoryCorps. This project travels the country recording conversations between everyday Americans. Today, two sisters remember life at home ... with a father at war.
[Duration:0'03"]
James Dowling served in the Army for 25 years. He fought in World War Two ... Korea and, in 1966, he was sent to Vietnam for a one year tour. His wife and three daughters in elementary school stayed behind. Two of those daughters -- Ellen Hess and Eileen Tarr -- still remember when he left.

OUTRO:

Ellen Hess with her sister Eileen Tarr in Richmond, Virginia. Their father, James Dowling, SURVIVED the Vietnam War. He was awarded the Bronze Star for bravery there. This StoryCorps interview will be archived will all the others at the
Library of Congress. Subscribe to the StoryCorps PODCAST ... at NPR-dot-ORG.

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