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StoryCorps: Mary Warm

Series: StoryCorps
From: StoryCorps
Length: 00:02:45

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15-year-old Mary Warm, who has Down syndrome, with her father, David. Read the full description.

Warm_small Mary Warm, 15, joined her father, David, in a StoryCorps booth when it stopped in Kansas City, Mo., near their home. Mary is a lot like any other teenager: She's in the 7th grade, and she looks up to her big sister, who is "a great person, no matter if her room is messy." But Mary also has Down syndrome, and she thought that a StoryCorps conversation could help other kids who are like her. When Mary asks her dad how he felt when she was born, he says it's a complicated question. He was excited to have another little girl, he says, but worried about how to raise her. "When [your mother and I] learned you had Down syndrome, I think we both decided that we had to figure it all out. So we went to classes and we read books and we talked to other people," David Warm, 51, tells his daughter. "But about two months later, I think we just kind of relaxed and realized that we just needed to raise you with love and teach you like we did your big sister, and everything would turn out all right." And it did work out all right, although Mary admits she gets a little annoyed when her dad tells her what to do. David Warm often tells Mary that she's special because of her positive attitude and the way she cares about others. "I told somebody just the other day that I want to be like my daughter Mary when I grow up."

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Mary Warm, 15, joined her father, David, in a StoryCorps booth when it stopped in Kansas City, Mo., near their home. Mary is a lot like any other teenager: She's in the 7th grade, and she looks up to her big sister, who is "a great person, no matter if her room is messy." But Mary also has Down syndrome, and she thought that a StoryCorps conversation could help other kids who are like her. When Mary asks her dad how he felt when she was born, he says it's a complicated question. He was excited to have another little girl, he says, but worried about how to raise her. "When [your mother and I] learned you had Down syndrome, I think we both decided that we had to figure it all out. So we went to classes and we read books and we talked to other people," David Warm, 51, tells his daughter. "But about two months later, I think we just kind of relaxed and realized that we just needed to raise you with love and teach you like we did your big sister, and everything would turn out all right." And it did work out all right, although Mary admits she gets a little annoyed when her dad tells her what to do. David Warm often tells Mary that she's special because of her positive attitude and the way she cares about others. "I told somebody just the other day that I want to be like my daughter Mary when I grow up."

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Review of StoryCorps: Mary Warm

I first listened to this piece when it aired on Morning Edition in early December, 2006. I was half asleep.
I lay under the covers, listening to Mary's voice as she quizzed her father, and to her father as he replied, and I was very touched.
I found his comments to her, describing his feelings when he and his wife learned that Mary had Down's Syndrome, to be moving and admirable.
I'm a big fan of StoryCorps. And pieces like this are the reason I think it works so well.

Broadcast History

NPR's Morning Edition 12/8/06

Transcript

DW: Mary who was, uh, who is the most important person in your life?

MW: My sister. I really look up to her, and she is a great person no matter her room is messy.

DW: So you remember when you were young and on Friday nights you and your sister and I would dance in the living room? We'd take out the coffee table and turn up the music and we'd get on our backs and be like bugs? (laughs)

MW: Yes

DW: Is there something about me that you've always wanted to know but you've never asked me?

MW: Yes Dad. How did you feel when I was born and how did mom feel?

DW: Well that's a complicated question. Um, we didn't know we were going to have a little girl so that's the first thing we thought we were really pleased to have another little girl. And then when we learned you had down syndrome I think we both decided that we had to figure it all out and, so we went to classes and we read...
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Intro and Outro

INTRO:

Time now for StoryCorps. This oral history project is traveling the country, collecting interviews between friends and families. Today, we hear from a daughter and her father. "My name is David Warm and I'm 51 years old. My name is Mary Warm and I'm here with my father..."

Mary Warm is fifteen years old and is in the sixth grade. She thought a StoryCorps conversation would help other kids who also have DOWN SYNDROME. So -- when the project stopped in Kansas City near their home -- Mary and her father, David, came in to talk.

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OUTRO:

Mary Warm with her father, David, at StoryCorps. This conversation -- and all StoryCorps interviews -- are housed at the American Folklife Center at the Library of Congress. Find out how to record YOUR story, at NPR-dot-ORG.

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